My Letter to a Young Sister (or Brother)

27 08 2009

Letter

My Letter to a Young Sister (or Brother) First Edition

Dear One,

I see you everyday taking your steps, carefree as you maneuver through life. You are not worried about tomorrow; you are just embracing today. And honestly that is fine; you have all of your adult life to worry about nothing. Now is the perfect time to take it easy because sooner than later you’ll feel as if the whole world is on your shoulders.  So just chill, take in the world as it comes to you. Enjoy life’s simple pleasures: running, jumping, laughing, and climbing. It is okay for you to just be a kid.

Don’t rush to grow up; let this inevitable process take its natural time to occur. The moment will come for you to put away childish things and pickup your piece of the world’s burden. Maybe you are already carrying your cross, I don’t know. But if you are not, be thankful and preserve this time while you can.

Being young is not a pass to be a fool. You still have to be smart and make good decisions. At a certain age you began to understand those lessons of right from wrong, good from bad. Your mother taught you not to take what does not belong to you, work hard for what you want. Your father explained the need for you to take pride in yourself, keep your head to the sky. And it was your grandmother who embedded that golden rule into your heart:  do unto others, as you would have them do unto you.  You have what it takes to do great things. It is your responsibility to utilize your understanding as you encounter difficult situations and pressing decisions throughout life.

Relax this is your time. Before you know it, this will all be gone. Always think, do this for yourself. Avoid trouble when you can. You are capable of making good decisions because you are smart and equipped with understanding. Even when others challenge you, trust in the good sense God gave you.

Make yourself proud.

Sincerely,

Demetra A. Allen





Established Fall 1988

19 08 2009

Established Fall 1988 is much more than the name of this site. Established Fall 1988 is a phrase that represents the basic idea of my personal philosophy: “My Brand. My Business. My Life.” I view my self as an entity or an organization with different dimensions and levels of operation.

My Brand is everything I represent. It is how I carry myself. My Brand is how I  act and react. I am in control of my personal brand. I do not have control of how someone else interprets what they see. But I do have control of the image I put out there. It is my responsibility to be authentic and let my true self mold the perception of others.

My Business is everything I create. I have some unique thoughts on the value of time. Anything that I feel is worth putting my time into is a business affair. Business dealings are viewed as top priority. I include everything of importance into this category from my academic career to my community service activities. It is my personal oath to maintain the highest level of professionalism in all I do.

My Life is everything I experience. Life is all about the makes and mistakes you experience. This is the easiest part because I am committed to living as long as the opportunity exist. It is less of a duty and more of a privilege.

tolivetodream





Website Review: RIVAFLOWZ.COM

12 08 2009

When searching for sites to feature in the Website Review, I try to discover those sites that prove to be a great resource for young professionals, like myself. I have been following this site for about four months and have been debating whether or not to feature it. But I came to the conclusion that RIVAFLOWZ.COM is a great resource for all, professional or not, who have love for good, thought-provoking content.

RIVAFLOWZ

This is the first site I have featured where I don’t have a lot of background information on the author. But I figure that is because most of the people I have featured thus far were more about promoting themselves, which I am not saying is a bad thing. However Riva, the woman behind the words, seems to be more about expressing herself and showcasing her artistic gifts. I am talking about Riva’s poetry, photography, and commentary. Riva’s story of her support of freshman rapper Drake, definitely caught my eye but her poem, Matilda spoke all too well to my personal story.

RIVAFLOWZ.COM is a simple yet personal site: easy to navigate and appealing to the eye. The site features an outside blog each week and a book suggestion. The site’s subtitle, “For the Caffeine, Bookstore, Journal-Obsessed Androids” is truly befitting of this artistic lover’s site. So if you are interseted in  music, poetry, graphic design, fiction, photography or anything else along the those lines, check out RIVAFLOWZ.COM.

tolivetodream





Raw Emotion: Loud and Clear

5 08 2009

They tell me, I am a dreamer with my head in the clouds. I reply to them, “Who are you to not know that I am so much more?” Yes, my hands are clenching the sky line but this line is the bar I use to pull myself up with to reach new heights. However your issue is not that I am a dreamer, but that I’m expanding outside of my mind and into your world. I am no longer just the girl next door. I am the woman who is placing her feet on your welcome mat. And honestly, your problem is you don’t know what to do with me, you fear the unknown. Rest your mind, I come not to hinder, but to aid in progression.

I have been given a purpose, a purpose bigger than you, much bigger than me. It is my challenge to uncover this purpose and fulfill it in my lifetime. This chase brings me happiness. I am driven. At times I feel unstoppable. I feel there is no force greater than God’s will. Therefore, if it is in his will for me to do something, there is no man touching this Earth that can stop it.

I am closing one chapter in my life and opening another. I am inspired and motivated to succeed because I know others are counting on me. I have an unspoken obligation to meet with those around me.  I am ready to take on the world of business and master my niche. I want to be the best. So if you should find yourself in opposition with my plan or my way of thinking, brace yourself….

Champion